Movember: Men’s Mental Health & Bladder Leaks

Movember

This Movember, Let's Start the Conversation.
Men's Mental Health, Bladder Leaks and Getting Back Out There.

Because "she'll be right" isn't a plan.

Night n Day/Men's Health/6 min read

November is Movember, the month the moustaches come out and the world talks a little more openly about men's health. Mental health and suicide prevention, prostate cancer and testicular cancer are all on the agenda.

There's one part of men's health that still rarely gets a mention: bladder leaks. Incontinence affects around 1 in 10 Aussie men, especially after prostate treatment. It can quietly chip away at confidence, mood and the things that make life good. So this Movember, we're putting it on the table.

Our team

We're Doing Movember This Year

The Night n Day team is taking part in Movember this year to help raise awareness of men's mental health. Everyday conversations about bladder health are part of that.

We'll be documenting the whole month right here on the blog and over on our socials. Follow along on Instagram and Facebook, and if you'd like to support the cause, you can donate to Movember below.

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Why it matters

Leaks Don't Just Affect Your Bladder

Ask any bloke who's dealt with bladder leaks and he'll tell you the physical side is only half of it. It's the planning, the worrying and the stuff you quietly stop doing.


Saying no to things. Skipping the footy, the fishing trip or the pub because you're not sure where the nearest toilet is.

Pulling back from the people you love. Avoiding intimacy, sleepovers or travel because of what might happen.

Keeping it to yourself. Feeling embarrassed, frustrated or flat, and not telling anyone.

That's how leaks can feed into low mood, anxiety and isolation. And men are already less likely to reach out. Around three in four people who die by suicide in Australia are men (ABS). That's why the conversation matters so much.

Here's the honest bit: the right products can make leaks easier to manage, but they're not a treatment for how you're feeling. If your mood has taken a hit, that deserves real support too, alongside the practical stuff.

In their words

Brave Voices From Our Community

Some of the men in our community, and the families who support them, have shared what getting their confidence back has meant. A huge thank you to everyone who has spoken up. Every story makes it easier for the next bloke.

“these briefs have made a great difference to Dad, and he is now more confident every day while wearing these.”

Kylie J., about her dad

“He has been wearing this style all his life, Quite confident but now with added protection against "leaks"”

Daphne N., about a loved one

“These are excellent for confidence if the incontinence is minor, that is, for very light flow.”

R-CBR, verified buyer

“Very good product !! It saved me a lot of embarrassments!!! Thank you !! I am very grateful !!!”

Johannes S., verified buyer
Starting the conversation

You Don't Need the Perfect Words

Most men don't open up across a table. They open up side by side: in the car, on a walk, at the shed, waiting for a fish to bite. If a mate seems off, Movember suggests a simple approach called ALEC:

AAsk. "How are you going, really?" Trust your gut if something seems off.

LListen. No need to fix it. Give him your full attention and let him talk.

EEncourage action. Suggest small steps, like seeing a GP or talking to someone who can help.

CCheck in. Follow up in a few days. It shows you meant it.

Want a practice run? Movember's free mental health conversations guide walks you through tricky chats.

If you're the one doing it tough, start with one person: a mate, your partner or your GP. Your GP can help with both your bladder and your headspace, including a mental health plan if you need one. A continence nurse can help with the practical side, so leaks stop running the show.

Support

Men's Mental Health Resources

Save these numbers. You never know when you, or a mate, might need them.


Lifeline 13 11 14
24/7 crisis support and suicide prevention. Call, text or chat online.

MensLine Australia 1300 78 99 78
Free 24/7 phone and online counselling for men, on anything from relationships to stress.

Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636
24/7 support for anxiety and depression, plus online forums.

Suicide Call Back Service 1300 659 467
24/7 phone and online counselling for anyone affected by suicide.

13YARN 13 92 76
24/7 crisis support for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people, from Mob.

Medicare Mental Health (Head to Health) 1800 595 212
Free help finding the right mental health service near you.

Prostate Cancer Foundation of Australia 1800 22 00 99
Free specialist counselling for men and families affected by prostate cancer.

National Continence Helpline 1800 33 00 66
Free, confidential advice from continence nurses.

Australian Men's Shed Association
Find a local Men's Shed for mateship, a project and a yarn.

Healthy Male
Plain-English information on men's health, from prostate to mental health.

Black Dog Institute
Research-backed information and online tools for mental health.

If life is in danger, call 000 straight away.

Our picks

Products to Help You Get Back Out There

Practical protection for the gym, the golf course, the ute and a good night's sleep.

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Talk to a Continence Nurse

Not sure what's causing your leaks, or what will actually help? A continence nurse assessment gives you a clear picture and a plan that fits your life. No awkwardness. Just straight answers.

Book a Continence Assessment

Community quotes are from customer reviews and are shared as written. This article is general information only and is not a substitute for advice from your doctor or health professional. Please speak with your GP about any new or changing bladder symptoms, or about how you're feeling.

 

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